Can't Win For Losing? Let me show you how!

Man lets be real sometimes you just feel knocked down, like a failure. Feelings of success seem impossible, and out of reach. Every where you turn, everything you try, ends in failure. I know I have had those days, and still do way too often. But I am here to tell you, your failure is only a step into your success, think of each let down, disappointment, mishap, as a stepping stone to the victory, another hurdle overcame, and a strength builder. It is like working out sometimes the only way to strengthen your muscles and build endurance is to first endure the pain, the weaknesses, and the struggles. You have two choices, to give up when the going gets tough and stop trying, or push through, endure and overcome the hard times, focusing on the goal, the victory. Failure is simply defeat, and the only sure way to fail is to give up. Failure should be our teacher, not our undertaker, failures are simply detours, but not dead ends. So those mishaps, and mess ups and disappointments aren't really failures at all but detours pointing you in the right direction. Even as I write this, I myself am struggling with feeling like a "failure", asking myself, am I not enough, why am I really doing this, does anyone really care about my work. I have found my self starting to lose hope, and getting discouraged, but I remind myself in order to dream big, build my team, and achieve, I have to dream small first and continue to pursue and push through, because I will be successful, I will make a difference and I do matter. You matter, you will succeed, your time is coming! Here is a list of mindsets to have when things don't seem to go your way, when it seems like you can't win for losing:

Positive Mindsets and Approaches in the Midst of losing hope, You can win!

1. Look at your "failures" as stepping stones instead of failures

2 Remember the only true way to fail is to give up.

3. You journey has just begun, detours may happen, but not dead ends

4. When you get knocked down, remind yourself to get back up.

5. As Daniel Tiger says, keep trying, you'll get better, so try, try ,try!

6. Focus on the lesson from the teacher himself (failure).

7. If one way doesn't work, try another way

8. Speak positive things over your situations and over your self, repeatedly.

9. AND first dream small, achieve small, in order to dream big and achieve big.

In order for us to overcome the battle of disappointments, and failures, we have to set forth small goals, small dreams, and achieve them before big dreams and big achievements can happen. Don't Go Big or Go Home!! Go small, to Go Big ! All success stories begin with small stepping stones, and multiple disappointments, but end in BIG ACHIEVEMENTS! You can WIN, when you realize losing is not an option and do something about it. Change your mindset, and apply it to your situation! TAKE ACTION and you will ACHIEVE.

BE AN OVERCOMER